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Picture Book of Saints

"The problem with this book isn’t just that it is violent and sexual, although that is cause for alarm given its intended age group. The problem is that these stories praised women for being meek and mild and virtuous, and doing nothing to save their own lives in the face of persecution. They taught me something very specific about female heroism, which is that a good woman, a woman who stands by her beliefs, is a woman in pain. The best thing for a woman to be is a victim, for that is true virtue."

 (...) "It’s natural to seek voices for our pain, and images to match. But pain isn’t a condition to which you should aspire. Pain isn’t glamorous, or deep, or special, or interesting. Pain is usually a sign that something is wrong, and if it’s fixable, you need to fix it. And any book that tells you otherwise is suspect. Such stories of female martyrs lead us astray—they’re a sly and sneaky way to prevent women from ever really standing up for themselves."

(...) "Of course, these are old stories, and they come from a time when women didn’t have a lot of options. But we had more in 1962, when Father Lawrence published his own interpretations. We had more in the ’90s, when this book was apparently still considered an appropriate gift to give a small child. And we have a lot more now, when I still see Picture Book of Saints on people’s bookshelves. Maybe it’s time to tell little girls different kinds of stories."

Literally the Worst Thing Ever : Picture Book of Saints